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Losing Someone You Love from Hub Pages

Lo-Lo started this conversation

IF YOU'VE EVER EXPERIENCED THE DEATH OF A FAMILY MEMBER, OR PERHAPS SOMEONE VERY CLOSE TO YOU THEN YOU'LL UNDERSTAND HOW DIFFICULT IT CAN BE TO IMAGINE HOW YOU'LL CARRY ON WITHOUT THEM.  yOU ARE LEFT WONDERING HOW IN THE WORLD YOU WILL BE ABLE TO MAKE IT THROUGH SITUATIONS WHERE YOU NORMALLY HAD THEM PRESENT.  hOW WILL YOU HANDLE CELEBRATIONS THAT ARE NORMALLY JOYFUL?

HOLIDAYS, BIRTHDAY, AND ANNIVERSARIES CAN BE REALLY TOUGH. THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS ARE PARTICULARLY TOUGH BECAUSE OF HOW MUCH EMPHASIS WE PUT ON THESE CELEBRATIONS.

NO MATTER HOW YOU SLICE IT, YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME, NOR WILL YOUR HOLIDAYS.  tHINGS ARE FOREVER CHANGED.  TIME TRULY IS A GREAT HEALIER.  I KNOW YOU'VE HEARD THAT BEFORE IT PROBABLY BRINGS LITTLE COMFORT WHEN YOU'RE FRESH IN YOUR GRIEF.  bUT, i DO PROMISE IT DOES GET EASISER TO DEAL WITH IT AS TIME PASSES ON.

 

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I CHOSE THIS ARTICLE BECAUSE IT DEFINITELY RELATES TO ME RIGHT NOW.  MY BROTHER PASSED BEFORE THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS.  WE HAD NO HOLIDAY SPIRIT THIS YEAR AND DID NOT CELEBRATE.  THE PAIN OF HIS SUDDEN DEATH WAS TO DIFFICULT TO EVEN THINK ABOUT THE HOLIDAYS.  WE DID CELEBRATE US ALL COMING TOGETHER AND BEING TOGETHER FOR TWO WEEKS.  I'M GOING BACK THERE NEXT WEEK TO SPEND SOME TIME WITH MOM AND DAD. MARCH THE 27TH IS MY DECEASED BROTHER'S BIRTHDAY AND HIS FRIENDS ARE GOING TO CELEBRATE THAT DAY IN HIS HONOR.  I WILL BE THERE FOR A PART OF THAT.   I WILL ALSO SEE MY OTHER BABY BROTHER, HIS CHILDREN, AND TWO GRANDCHILDREN THAT BRINGS US JOY.

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Lo-Lo
 in response to PittsburghMomma...   I appreciate your kind words.
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PittsburghMomma
Sorry to hear of your loss,Death is never easy,exspecially when it is someone you are very close to and cared for. In time we heal,we don't forget, but we heal,and we never truely loose them, they are always with us. Many blessings,and remember he is always with you watching over your family.
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 in response to Lo-Lo...   And I thankyou.
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Lo-Lo
 in response to positive thoughts...   THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR PRAYERS AND KIND WORDS.
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Lo-Lo
 in response to positive thoughts...   THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH.
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I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I pray for strength. You are right in saying your life would never be the same. I am adjusting with the loss of my mom.
Sending you a huge hug.
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Starshine
I am glad you got to spend time with your family. And that you are going back to see your mom and dad. Plus see your other baby brother ( my mom would call her younger brothers, baby brothers as she helped raise one) and his children. Yes, someone's passing changes our lives and being with each other is a blessing in itself.
Have a great time seeing everyone,
Starshine
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